Q1. What rules apply when taking youths to external venues, e.g. a leisure centre?
For nearby events, it is usually the responsibility of the parents to take and collect the child. If the parents want to arrange lift shares, they are still responsible for their child’s safety. If the activity location is some distance away and the organisers arrange transport, it is important that they use licensed and insured vehicles with appropriate seatbelts etc.
Q2. What about physical touch between youths, e.g. when playing games?
This is generally ok, provided there is no risk of physical harm, and no touching of inappropriate body parts. However, youths should be told to be sensitive to how another youth responds to being touched. If they show any form of negative reaction, then they should avoid future contact.
Q3. Do parents need to be informed if one or more mentoring sessions are arranged for their child?
Yes, permission from parents must be sought in advance of any sessions taking place. Mentoring sessions should normally be arranged at the youth or parents’ request.
Q4. Where can youth mentoring sessions take place?
In church (with at least one other adult present in the building) or in a public place (e.g. a café). The vicar or safeguarding lead should be informed when and where any meetings will take place.
Q5. Should what is spoken about in mentoring sessions be treated as confidential?
Yes, unless the youth discloses anything that leads the mentor to have concerns about their safety. If any notes are taken by the mentor they should be kept in a locked drawer.
Q6. Do youth helpers need DBS checks?
No, but they must be under the supervision of an adult who has a current DBS certificate.